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Female
Never Married
Stamford, Connecticut
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In their own words

Writer who Loves Life

I am a creative, sexy, fun woman who is seeking a like minded outgoing, sexy, creative Man. I like to travel and am always planning a trip somewhere. I love good conversation so if you are reluctant to talk please don’t reply because I am not trying to change you or draw out that part of your personality. Life is short and getting to know someone should not be a chore. For right now I am looking for a short-term relationship that could evolve into a long-term connection. We can meet, have a good time and then meet again if all goes well. Or we can meet have a good time and there be no sparks and that would be okay too. At least we would have found a new friend. Truth is important to me so if you are married please do not get in touch with me. I believe in following my dreams so someone who is pursuing theirs would be perfect. I would describe myself as a woman who wears her hair natural. Voluptuous, full-figured and thick have been used to describe my physical body – I’m fine with those words. My spirit is also voluptuous and full-figured. I find satisfaction in expressing my spirituality artfully. If you love life and believe in yourself get in touch with me.

Appearance
Best Feature
I'll tell you later
Hair
Brown
Eyes
Brown
Physique
A few extra pounds
Height
5'  4"   (163 cm)
Family Roots
American
Race
Black / African descent
My Lifestyle
Smoking
Non-Smoker
Drinking
Socially
Has Kids
No
Wants Kids
No
Religion
Spiritual
Education
Master's Degree
Occupation
Entertainment / Media / Dramatic Arts
Income
I'll tell you later
Exercise
Occasionally
Politics
Liberal
What languages do you speak?
English
Favorite Music
Dance / Electronica / House, New Age, Rap / Hip-Hop, Reggae
Favorites
Favorite Actors
Idris Elba - Denzel Washington - Columbus Short - Morgan Freeman -Forest Whitaker - Jeffrey Wright
Favorite Actresses
Angela Bassett - Kerry Washington - Viola Davis - Tina Fey - Holly Hunter - Laura San Giacomo
Favorite Authors
Walter Mosley - Pearl Cleage - Langston Hughes - Rudolph Fisher - Guy Johnson - Kevin Baker
Favorite Books
Standing At the Scratch Line - Paradise Alley - Easy Rawlins Novels -
Favorite Cities
NYC - Paris
Favorite Drinks
Chocolate Martini - Bahama Mama
Favorite Magazines
O
Favorite News Anchor
Rachel Maddow
Favorite Politicians
Barack Obama
Favorite Songs At The Moment
Somewhere Over the Rainbow by IZ - Don't Hold Back - Fool for You - From My Heart to Yours
Favorite TV Comedies
Big Bang - Rules of Engagement - King of Queens - Fraiser
Favorite TV Dramas
Scandal - Castle - NCIS - Bluebloods
Favorite TV News Sources
Anything on MSNBC
Favorite Foods
Chinese & Italian
Favorite Styles Of Music
Old School Rap - Hip Hop - Reggae - New Age - Nature sounds
Interests
Barbecues
Hanging out with family & friends is always a good way to pass the day.
Children
Love all my god-children and children by other Mothers and spend adequate time but not a req of anyone I am involved with.
Comedy
Love a good comedian who can take the complexities of life and make me laugh - Chris Rock - Dave Chappelle
Exercise
No to exercise but YES to anything to do with a SPA....
Food
Don't do it but willing to watch you do your thing in the kitchen....
Live Concerts
Don't go to every concert but will see Maxwell whenever he is in the area....
Movies
Love the movies.....
Politics
Watch MSNBC a lot so I am pretty well versed in modern day political happenings but have to take break sometimes.
Reading
Love to read....
Religion
Not a church attender and don't plan on making a change in that area - I do not fear God.
School
Just got accepted into a Masters program in Television & Film Production
Singing
Can't but love to....
Television
Do love television but not chained to the set....
Theater
Love a good play - comedy, musical, drama and I'm open to some experimental stuff as well.
Traveling
I go away at least twice a year - if you don't like to travel that is okay but don't expect me to curtail my travels.
Writing
Writing is my thing - completed a screenplay, a novel, and working on a new novel.
Personality
Adventurousness Somewhat Daring
Affectionateness Somewhat Doting
Confidence Somewhat Confident
Independence Very Independent
Mood Average
Romance Average
Sociability Somewhat Extroverted
Thought Process Very Artistic
Tolerance Average
Lifestyle
Dress Average
Energy Average
Go Party Sometimes
Religion Average
Neatness Average
Punctuality Always On Time
Spending Average
Work Ethic Driven
Insights
Describe the perfect evening.
Depending on the evening - dinner, good wine, and great conversation.
Describe your perfect weekend.
Doing something that interests one or both of us - I do believe in learning new things so I can try something my partner might like and I know nothing about as long as it doesn't involve a bike path.
Do you believe in love at first sight?
No
How many kids would you like to have?
Zero
How important is someone's physical appearance to you?
Somewhat
If you could have one super power, what would it be and why?
The ability to erase my memory of something painfully distressing although I realize each experience has contributed to who I am as a person....
What is the purpose of marriage?
Not on the top of my priority list so I don't have an answer....
What is the most important lesson that you've learned?
Terrible things happen to good people and you can survive most things...if you want to.....
What do your friends like about you most?
My sense of humor, zaniness, enthusiasm and my love of life.
What do your friends tease you about the most?
My goofiness....
What gets on your nerves?
Intolerance which makes me intolerant but hey what can I say....
What is the most important thing in a relationship?
Truth...what someone is looking for.....now BS allowed.....
What's the best age to get married?
Obviously I don't know since I am 50 and never married....
What turns you off?
Arrogance and no compassion.....
What do you hope to be doing five years from now?
Living life my way, being there for my loved ones and friends and still learning....
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