seeking soul mate... not looking to add any friends...

hello ..how is everyone doing .hopefully here having fun meeting your soul mate. first I know I may scare off a lot of you guys but that is perfectly fine with me.... well a little about myself. well i think that I am very understanding to the truth , I am very out going , love to go to the movies, out to eat i also like to eat at home, love laying up with a good movie at home, i like bowling, and going to the gym 5 days a week.. ok I try to go 5 days a week , more like 3 lol... i love getting up in the morning to read my bible yes i have to get that in every morning, love my listening to my gospel. i would say i am a very independent woman that needs a very independent man. i do have my own car and place, i also have a job.i keep myself up so i expect my mate to have the same on the table if not more.. i am a team player but that's only after the team has been built ..i do expect my mate to be able to lead and know and understand his place as a man " head of the house" i only date to for marriage . so if your not marriage mined please don't bother.. i don't mind kids as long as they are grown. i can say that i am 46 and want some me time... i love the grandkids and love spending time with them, i also like to send them bake home any time i want too lol.. so anything else you would like to know about me please ask..