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Jersey City, New Jersey
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In their own words

Love Does, What Love Do!

It has been my personal experience that one of the more poorly understood aspects of man's bond with a woman is his need for her. In our own way, we may attempt to hide it or even disguise our need for you, in hopes that you may not notice a dependency, both spiritually and emotionally. In turn, some women feel discomfort with a man's dependency, a fact which may cause a brother to disguise the intensity of his need for her. The net result is that many women are not fully aware of male dependency and as a result do not realize the leverage and power she posses, and visa-a-versa. Thus, causing her to view his inability to communicate one's affections emotionally or built-in need for her, as weakness. To the extent that she may not be able to ultimately see the brother in her life as capable of adequately protecting her or their collective nest. Men have at times and in my experiences disengaged themselves after being nagged, scrutinized or cajoled for weeks, or months on into making a commitment. And honestly; just as quickly fell for someone else. Understandably, we all have to be firm in a way that comes from the heart and is felt not heard! And that this isn't a gender thing! Any relationship requires all of us (men and women) to view ourselves in it as a 'we' thing! Honestly speaking, I've experienced one too many social misunderstandings. Likewise, I am here as part of a collective restoration process. I come in reconciliation.

Appearance
Best Feature
Eyes
Hair
Brown
Eyes
Brown
Physique
Athletic
Height
6'  3"   (190 cm)
Family Roots
American
Race
Black / African descent
My Lifestyle
Smoking
Non-Smoker
Drinking
Never
Has Kids
Yes
Wants Kids
Maybe
Religion
Christian
Education
Master's Degree
Occupation
Construction / Agriculture / Landscaping
Income
I'll tell you later
Exercise
Regularly
Politics
Liberal
What languages do you speak?
English, French, Spanish
Favorite Music
Blues, Gospel, Rap / Hip-Hop, Reggae, Acoustic, Latin, Religious
Favorites
Favorite Authors
Vincent Harding
Favorite Books
There Is A River!
Favorite Colors
Red, Orange, Black, Gold (Yellow)
Favorite Country
USA
Favorite Drinks
Ginger Ale, Crannberry Juice, Water
Favorite Fast Foods
Burger King
Favorite Magazines
Black Enterprise
Favorite Restaurants
Forticimo's
Favorite Songs At The Moment
Jon Lucien: Soul Mate, Will Downing: I'll Wait, Marvin Gaye: What's Goin On and Bob Marley: Who the Cap Fits
Favorite Sports
Basketball, Tennis, Boxing
Favorite TV Comedies
Blackish
Favorite TV Dramas
Walking Dead, Scandal
Favorite Foods
Soul Food, Spanish or Italian
Favorite Styles Of Music
Clssic R&B, Soul, Gospel, Salsa, Reggae, Jazz, Soft Rock
Interests
Art
Museums
Barbecues
I am the center of all Bar B Q's
Basketball
New York Knicks, LA Clippers, Seton Hall (College)
Board Games
Chess, Back Gammond, Monopoly, Checkers and Dominos
Camping
Moutains, Near water, Canoing and more!
Children
Watermelon Bob's
Cooking
Bar B Q
Exercise
Running
Personality
Adventurousness Somewhat Daring
Affectionateness Somewhat Doting
Trustingness Somewhat Gullible
Confidence Very Humble
Independence Very Independent
Mood Somewhat Chill
Romance Very Romantic
Sociability Somewhat Introverted
Thought Process Very Analytical
Tolerance Average
Lifestyle
Dress Average
Energy Very High
Neatness Average
Punctuality Always On Time
Spending Somewhat Spendthrift
Work Ethic Driven
Insights
Describe the perfect evening.
Walk Quietly on the waterfront (if it's spring or summer time) before or after a really funnie movie or lunch. Window shop see if our tastes and or material values in things are the same. Canoe (close to water) up a narrow river, spend one or two nitghts on the river banks.
How many kids would you like to have?
Three to four children. I am not sure how to answer this except to say, I am open!
What gets on your nerves?
Dishonesty, evasiveness & distrust.
What is the most important thing in a relationship?
To love unconditionally, because we are imperfect and forever evolving beings that require the ultimate kind of love. I was told LOVE covers a multitude of sins... this is true today and always.
What turns you off?
Poor Hygene!
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