be true to yourself and me plz

i wanna meet a man that is done with all the immature part of his life but still like to go out on occasions but can be very trusted when he does got out and at the same time invites me to go or i invite him to go. he has to love my kids bc they r the package deal but we are a very good package deal. that i can say n others can verify that as well. but he has to be on his feet have his life togetha not a bum thats lookn to smooch of somebody no sir i dnt need that in my life i need someone that can handle me n what i have going for me n my kids life. that all for now.