Looking for friends first & see where it goes

I'm looking to meet a man that is looking for a good woman. I'm a single mom that wants to make friends first, take things slow and will see where it goes. I love music mainly hip hop and R&B but I can jam to anything except opera. I can cook some of my friends call me Shaniqua Crocker in the kitchen. I'm a BBW 5'8" and ***pounds in other words I'm a big girl with lots of junk in da trunk. I go to the movies, museums, parks and concerts when I have time. I'm the girl that everyone says is the sweet,fun, and friendly listener. Looking For: My match is a straight man. Not married-no drama please. Average to nice shape I wouldn't want a man too large (if you've seen Queens of Comedy you know what I mean).You must have the usual basics, car, home/apt., job, ect. Someone I can go to the bookstore(Borders, Half price books) with, just hang relaxed at home or go on a nice night out.