I am God fearing and will always be, but I am not a Christian or a member of any organised religion... I hope that whoever is reading my profile will be able to see something much deeper than my profile picture can reveal, so I have not made a special effort to display the best picture. It's interesting to find out how we become much clearer about our expectations, limitations, and level of tolerance as we get older. The most important thing that I have learned from my contacts is not to assume anything and to have an abundance of patience - with time things always unfold and you get to see them much clearer. I am considerate, gentle, and compassionate and I can be lots of fun too with the right person. I have absolutely no interest in cyber-sex as I do not consider it appropriate for two people who are not committed to each other. I have an interest in health and nutrition, if that resonates with you I would love to hear from you. Please don't write to me if you are under 50 years old.