Before anyone can start a healthy relationship one should have self respect, which first begins with self love, be true to self; be you, not someone else! Lies only lead to destruction; trust CANNOT be built on lies! Life is what you make of it. I consider myself to be conscious and focused with a lot of love to give, and expect same. In getting to know each other I expect you to be real, as I will be nothing else. Life is too short to not live it!