loving ,hard working, caring, kind and considerate, also easy going, very fair-minded and understanding and tolerant, committed, compassionate, honest and trustworthy, free spirited music loving (classical first and other music second) independent person with sense of humour, wishing to meet others if possible UK based?. But I remain open minded if the situation allows, I currently work in the travel and tourism sector. To be honest this is my first paid for foray into online dating, (not much good at online chat as find it hard to get the wording right ) however, I must be very honest always as I am also, not perfection. I do not want to put anyone off. (in my case due to long term trauma). But I can manage if not rushed as I like to make sure I get it right so please be very understanding as I must also be understanding, humble and forgiving towards others who may also need a bit of kindness and understanding during their search . Please with all due respect my red lines are as follows, STRICTLY PLEASE NO STUDENTS, NO UNEMPLOYED . ALSO PLEASE BEAR IN MIND YOU MUST BE ABLE TO WORK EVEN IF IT IS PART TIME AND BE ABLE MAKE YOUR OWN WAY IN THE WORLD AS I AM HAPPY TO DO THE SAME AS WE ARE ALL NOT RICH IN THE WEST SO BE IN NO DOUBT THAT MYTH IS BUST. no fakes/uncompleted profiles with no pics unless you can explain yourselves clearly. if you try to scam you will be blocked and reported instantly without mercy, all best wishes and many blessings to you all.