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43
Male
Never Married
Knoxville, Tennessee
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At first I was afraid, I was petrified...

There’s something terribly unsettling about the prospect of posting a cookie-cutter tag line on a personals site in an effort to get noticed by the masses, so I’ll spare you the cheesy one liners and mundane self description. You see, I’m not looking for someone so much as I am attempting to be found. If you don’t know the difference, then you suck! Ok, ya don't, but you’ll likely not have any interest in anything else I have to say. Thing is, it takes a certain type of person to find me, so not everyone will. I’m a little different in that I define myself by what’s going on in my head rather than what’s going on in my life. It’s not always the most glamorous way of defining one‘s self, but it‘s fairly honest and accurate. Ya see, I’m a bit flawed. I’m a good person, though not necessarily nice; an analytical thinker who can’t seem to focus at times; an individual blessed/cursed with a level of self awareness that is sometimes uplifting and sometimes self-deprecating. And though I won’t always admit it, I secretly envy the vast majority of people who seem to walk around not thinking about much of anything. Looking For: Above all else, I value people with integrity... meaning folks who have unwavering core values. I don‘t give a damn if you curse like a sailor, steal candy from little kids, and kick puppies when nobody‘s looking, as long as it‘s consistent with who you are and what you say you’re all about. Make those curse words count, eat that candy openly with pride, and we’ll go on a puppy kicking spree together. I appreciate a person who is confident without being conceited, humble without having low self esteem… a person who enjoys sharing his/her opinions, not just engaging in polite small talk… a person who can tell me not only that you like a certain movie, but why you like it… a person who will occasionally humor me by engaging in an absurd debate over a meaningless topic… a person who knows that there is more music in the world than r&b, understands why Seinfeld is way funnier than anything by the Wayans brothers, and isn’t too pretty to go outside and play. I’ve always believed that there’s something intriguing and interesting about any person who is willing to be discovered (at least partially) through lost art of written communication , so that’s a great way to start. Oh, and I was just kidding about the puppy kicking spree… I gave that up years ago. ;)

Appearance
Best Feature
I'll tell you later
Eyes
Brown
Physique
Athletic
Height
5'  9"   (175 cm)
Family Roots
American
Race
Black / African descent
My Lifestyle
Smoking
Non-Smoker
Drinking
Socially
Has Kids
No
Wants Kids
No
Religion
Agnostic
Education
Bachelor's Degree
Exercise
Always
Politics
Middle Of The Road
What languages do you speak?
English
Favorite Music
Alternative, Blues, Classical, Rap / Hip-Hop, Reggae, Latin
Personality
Adventurousness Average
Affectionateness Somewhat Reserved
Trustingness Somewhat Skeptical
Confidence Somewhat Humble
Independence Very Independent
Mood Average
Romance Average
Sociability Somewhat Introverted
Thought Process Average
Tolerance Compliant
Lifestyle
Dress Somewhat Casual
Energy Average
Go Party Rarely
Neatness Average
Punctuality Always On Time
Spending Somewhat Thrifty
Work Ethic Driven