Lovers or Friends- U Decide

I am a single Black American female with 1 child and a heart full of goals and ambition. Not looking for games or someone to take care of me. I am very independent, but will let a man wear the pants when in a relationship. Know how to work together and love doing family oriented activities, having fun,going to church & singing in the choir, & just enjoying the little time left on this beautiful earth. Don't force Religion on anyone but would like someone who doesn't mind going to church at times. I just really love being my own carefree self and nothing in this world can make or break me to do the wrong thing except the man above. I do and can be a lot of fun ( somewhat of a comedian ) and do also know how to be serious and a great communicator. A lot of relationships would flourish so well if each party just communicated and cared enough about each other's feelings. Looking For: I would like to meet a someone who knows what he wants out of life, a great communicator & lover (smile),someone who enjoys family activities as well as being alone with your mate sometimes and just be yourself.It doesn't matter how many kids you have as long as you have a relationship with them. It's ok to be spontaneous sometimes or at times want to be alone, just not selfish. I know I have a lot to offer the right man so come along and "Be Mine"