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Marriage minded, legacy driven average guy looking for a good woman.

First and foremost, I have a child who is almost 2. I attempted to do the right thing and marry the mother, she returned the ring. I don't want to trauma bond with anyone, but some women do not want a man with kids, and I understand that. Having a "baby mama" is a potential red flag to some. Other than that, I work hard to provide for myself and those around me. I want to build a life with a woman, not a lifestyle. I'm not the clubbing type. I go to work(taking every opportunity for overtime), come home, make sure everything and everyone is ok, play a few video games, rinse and repeat. I am currently in a position to invest in real estate. Hopefully within the next 10 years, I will be in a position to retire and spend time with my family. Within the next 5 years, I want to retire my wife first. I want to be able to be involved as much as possible with my family without any excuses. Notice I said children(plural). I only have one child right now. I am seeking a younger woman because she will have less complications giving me children. I want 1 - 2 more kids. I want those kids to see what it looks like when a man and woman works together in a home. I'm old school. I take out the trash, mow the lawn, replace alternators, lay flooring, slight plumbing and electrical, etc... I keep the house functioning. I want a woman who can make the house a home and can (healthily) cook her behind off. SEAFOOD IS A PLUS! My ideal woman will understand my purpose and walk with me in it.

Appearance
Hair
Black
Eyes
Brown
Physique
Average
Height
5' 11"   (180 cm)
Family Roots
American
Race
Black / African descent
My Lifestyle
Smoking
Trying to Quit
Drinking
Socially
Has Kids
Yes
Wants Kids
Yes
Religion
Christian
Education
High School
Occupation
Manufacturing / Warehousing / Shipping
Income
$45,000 - $60,000
Exercise
Occasionally
Politics
Some Other Viewpoint
What languages do you speak?
English
Favorite Music
Instrumental
Favorites
Favorite Books
Beyond Order: 12 More Rules for Life, Cant Hurt Me, The Richest Man In Babylon, Start With Why, The Infinite Game, Born a Crime, Leaders Eat Last
Favorite Drinks
Crown and Coke, but I need to quit.
Favorite Comedies
Dave Chappelle the GOAT
Favorite Place To Be Kissed
You need to ask about that!lol
Favorite Politicians
Really????
Favorite Restaurants
Seafood
Favorite Stocks
AMD, Nvidia, Nike
Favorite Foods
If it tastes good and its healthy, its my favorite.
Interests
Acting
I took it a lot in high school. I learned how people pretend.
Animals
Nope
Antiques
I respect it
Art
I respect it
Astrology
When women talk about it, I cringe
Astronomy
When women talk about it, I cringe
Barbecues
Great for bringing extended family together
Bars
eh
Basketball
I will watch it, but I don't follow it anymore
Biology
Not really
Board Games
Only on Christmas. But I could tolerate more if you're into that.
Business Finance
Not sure, I am too focused on personal finance right now.
Camping
For what?
Card Games
No problem with it
Cars
Enthusiast
Children
I have 1, and I want 1-2 more. I don't want her to be an only child.
Circus
They still have those?
Comedy
Love it
Community Service
Maybe when I retire.
Cooking
I wouldnt
Dancing
Ummm..... I will try, but I wont impress you.
Dating
I date with intent.
Dogs and Cats
Nope, and Nope
Drawing
Not good at it, but I have a ton of family who is!
Electronics
YES YES YES! I am a techie
Exercise
I need to more. I would love a woman to whip my average body into shape.
Food
Not a foodie.
Football
I will watch it, but I don't follow it anymore
Gambling
A lotto ticket every 3 months
Gardening
Nope
Guns
I go to the range when I can
Internet
I spend WAY too much time on that!
Live Concerts
Love em
Math
I'm pretty good with numbers
Medicine
I respect it, I just dont like taking it.
Movies
Action movies only.
Opera
Please, no. If you drag me to that, you owe me TEN.
Painting
I don't have that talent
Pets
Nope
Philosophy
LOVE IT
Photography
We should bring that back. ELIMINATE PHONE CAMERAS! lol
Politics
I will only speak on politics if you know the history behind it.
Psychology
Depends on the intent behind it. Some use it to understand, others use it to manipulate.
Radio
Do podcasts count?
Reading
Whenever possible. I supplement with audiobooks though.
Religion
I was raised Christian, but I think all of them have the same core message.
Rugs
Huh?
Running
I need to
School
That would make a very interesting discussion. There are pros and cons.
Shopping
NO(unless its tech lol)
Singing
Off key
Sky Diving
I did it, and I will do it again! You should too!
Snowboarding
I really want to try it.
Soccer
Not really
Stock Market
I don't want to label it a hobby, but I am really getting into it.
Technology
YESSSSS
Television
Not anymore
Tennis
I can tolerate watching it, its pretty cool.
Theater
Nope
Traveling
For family out of town. Lavish traveling is reserved for the wife and kids.
Video Games
Love it, and it keeps me in the house vs out in these streets.
Walking
Nope
Writing
It helps get my thoughts out. LOOK AT ALL THESE DETAILS ON MY PROFILE!lol
Personality
Adventurousness Average
Affectionateness Average
Trustingness Somewhat Skeptical
Confidence Average
Independence Very Independent
Mood Very Intense
Romance Somewhat Unromantic
Sociability Very Introverted
Thought Process Very Analytical
Tolerance Somewhat Unbending
Lifestyle
Dress Average
Energy Average
Go Party Never
Religion Small Part
Neatness Somewhat Neat
Punctuality Often Early
Spending Somewhat Thrifty
Work Ethic Workaholic
Insights
Describe your perfect weekend.
2-3 days off!
Do you believe in love at first sight?
Not at all. I am visual at first sight. Love is earned.
How many kids would you like to have?
I have 1. I would like up to 2 more.
What is the purpose of marriage?
Marriage is meant to built a family/legacy with a spouse willing to COMMIT to the journey of living out their LIFE with you. Sponsor family reunions after you're dead and gone. It's purpose is to acquire a foothold in this world, and allow your children to start adulthood in a better position than yours.
What do your friends like about you most?
I problem solve. I don't beat around the bush.
What do your friends tease you about the most?
They don't.
What is the most important thing in a relationship?
Commitment. Not loyalty. Loyalty is a one way street. "Prove yourself, and when I am satisfied(maybe never), I will return loyalty." Commitment involves putting your best foot forward up front, from both parties, and understanding that even when mistakes are made, the effort to do better for someone else remains at the forefront.
What's the best age to get married?
Women: 22 - 30, Men: 30 - 45
What turns you off?
Feminists. False representations: fake claw nails, excessive makeup, fake eyelashes, fake hair. Loud and obnoxious women. Hyper materialism.
What turns you on?
Femininity. A genuine woman who understands that men and women NEED each other for different reasons.
What do you hope to be doing five years from now?
Retired!
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