Welcome to my page, let me tell you a little about myself. I am a 39 year old divorced mother of four wonderful children as well as a wonderful grandson. If you don't want to chat with a woman with children then please exit my page now. I am a proud mother and my children are my life. My kids range from the ages of 19-13. I loved being married but that is not the man that I was suppose to spend the rest of my life with. I enjoy walks on the beach, spending time with my children, cooking, writing poems, and going to church. I love the lord and he is the reason I am the woman I am today. I am not on the Planet for drama, just fun. I am not looking for a hook up. There are men in my area if that s what I want. I don't need a lover, I need a friend. I don't need a father for my chilren, they have a father. If you have baby momma drama then keep moving. If you are a wanna be baller keep moving. If you want to hook up with as many women as you can before you turn 40 then keep moving. I am not that woman that you need to waste your time with sending a note or a wink. I am a strong black woman that knows what she wants and how to get what she wants. That's called hard work, and believing in myself. I have met a few people on the Planet, and some need help. But I have met some that can hold a good conversation. I need someone that I can relate too. Someone that can capture my mind as well as my soul. Someone that knows what they want and not afraid to go out and get it.