First and foremost, I am the amalgamation of book smarts and street smarts, a real New Yorker. Even though, i may appear stoic at times, the nerd genes are quite strong within me and i can be very gawky, when nobody is watching;-) I would like to meet a woman who is very down to earth and that is also very open minded, uses their common sense and that is adventurous, love to laugh and have fun. She will treat others like she wants to be treated. I am a bona fide sucker for a lady with a beautiful smile. I believe every woman possesses one. Hey, if you don’t just add some kool aid, lol. Not big on the dating scene because I believe romance developed through friendship is the best, that way we can avoid some of the pit falls that come with rushed relationships but it doesn't mean I don't date, just like to take things slow. I'm a carefree type of person and I'm not serious at all times. Because I do have a lot of faith in life, so I know, all I have to do is handle my responsibilities and everything else will fall where they're meant to. So, I don't worry about life too much. Hoping to find a like minded lady, so I hope some of you can relate to me.