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Female
Divorced
Palm Coast, Florida
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In their own words

Seeking my Soulmate

In spite of the pandemic life still holds possibilities... new challenges & adventures. I’m moving forward. Decided to enjoy my white hair & embrace my natural beauty. I’m an intelligent, attractive woman whose vitality is more youthful than my age.  I have a passion for life. Friends say I’m kind, caring and considerate.  A man who is self-aware & compassionate will take time to get to know me & offer friendship first. Any worthwhile relationship takes time to develop. Shared values & interests are key, as is your integrity. What motivates you, what interests you, what grounds you, and are you in touch with your emotions? Being able to communicate and have a natural flow into intimacy is important.  I have a lot to offer, yet I am discriminate.  I can be serious, but I enjoy fun & laughter. Spirituality and natural healing are vital to me. Dancing is a favorite past time - urban ballroom, hand dance, steppin' line dance, salsa... I like to dabble in a little belly dancing for fun. After Not having hiked or biked lately, getting that back on track with someone would be fun. I like to garden as another past time. I have a background in architecture and have led programs in non-profits. Music stirs my soul. I listen to a variety of music and love Jazz.  I enjoy engaging conversation as much as books, film, theater & concerts. Varied cultures interest me. I am passionate about experiencing new places and people and their culture - travel is a very important part of my life.

Appearance
Best Feature
Eyes
Hair
White or Gray
Eyes
Gray
Physique
Average
Height
5'  2"   (157 cm)
Family Roots
American
Race
Black / African descent
My Lifestyle
Smoking
Non-Smoker
Drinking
Socially
Has Kids
Yes
Wants Kids
No
Religion
Spiritual
Education
Bachelor's Degree
Occupation
Retired
Income
I'll tell you later
Exercise
Regularly
Politics
Liberal
What languages do you speak?
English, Other
Favorite Music
Alternative, Classical, Classic Rock, Dance / Electronica / House, Latin, Middle Eastern / Persian / Arabic, Rock & Roll, New Age, Reggae
Favorites
Favorite Actors
Canada Lee, Sidney Poitier, Denzel Washington, Forest Whittaker
Favorite Actresses
Angela Bassett, Meryl Streep, Halle Berry,
Favorite Artists
Charles Bibbs, Romare Bearden
Favorite Authors
Marita Golden, Deepak Chopra, Sara Breathnach, Rumi, Kahlil Gibrahn, Gurdjieff, Ouspensky
Favorite Books
Too many to list
Favorite Cities
Barcelona, Vancouver, Chicago, Montreal, in St. Maarten/Martin, Paris, Rome, Chandria, Istanbul, San Francisco Bay Area, Seattle
Favorite Clothing Stores
Chico's, Macys, Nordstroms...
Favorite Colors
Depends on my mood, always black, sometimes neutrals, sometimes vibrant colors
Favorite Country
Several
Favorite Drinks
Reisling Spatlese, Chardonnay
Favorite Fast Foods
None at all
Favorite Magazines
Essence, Black Enterprise, Odyssey Couleur
Favorite News Anchor
Variety from varied sources, but prefer public radio sources
Favorite Night Clubs
Blue Martini, Cuba Libre
Favorite Place To Be Kissed
Anywhere and anywhere!
Favorite Plays
Any Augusta Wilson
Favorite Politicians
Obama, Hillary
Favorite Quote From A Movie
I'll Be Back, LOL
Favorite Restaurants
A few
Favorite Sports
Participate in Golf, any sport as a spectator... basketball and football would be first choices.
Favorite TV Dramas
Scandal, Sci-fi
Favorite TV News Sources
MSNBC, CNN, public broadcast, foreign broadcast
Favorite Foods
Healthy balance
Favorite Styles Of Music
Real Jazz (first), ethnic, classical, alternative, popular dance, Latin, reggae
Interests
Acting
Aspired to become one, still try out for parts as an extra
Animals
This is their home too
Antiques
Used to try my hand at restorations
Art
Inspirational
Astrology
Interesting to follow
Astronomy
Mind blowing
Barbecues
Great fun with friends and family
Bars
I prefer dance halls
Basketball
Like to watch sports on occasion, not a priority though
Board Games
Like
Business Finance
The bane of my existence... Is there a CPA in the house, LOL
Camping
Would love to do this again
Card Games
Like... but not that good at it, enjoy watching, perhaps someday I'll enjoy it more
Cars
Hondas last a long time if well maintained
Children
I'm such a proud parent, grandma and (unbelievable) great grandma!
Comedy
Enjoyable
Community Service
Very Important!
Cooking
When I am in the mood, I can throw down
Dancing
One of my greatest passions!!!
Dating
Can be Fun
Dogs and Cats
Okay
Drawing
Done that fairly well, but wish my talent equaled my desire
Electronics
Back in the day I could build computers, still can but technology changes so swiftly and it costs less to purchase these days
Exercise
A necessary evil, LOL... I work out but prefer to build it into my routine as a natural event. i.e. hiking, walking, dancing
Food
Can be sensual, healthy eating is not hard at all
Football
Like to watch sports on occasion, not my passion or priority though
Gambling
Can be fun for some but often drains the pockets of those living on a hope and a prayer
Gardening
Another passion of mine, love growing things and working with the earth
Guns
Do not like them in the least
Internet
Good if you use it well, rather than allowing it to use you, I make some of my money from it
Live Concerts
Enjoy that so much!
Math
More important than most children realize, I find my self relying on my knowledge of advanced math in my everyday
Medicine
Natural methods of healing preferred
Movies
Enjoy a good one...mystery, drama, documentaries, classics, sci-fi, romance
Opera
Have liked some
Painting
Wanted so much to be talented at that... appreciate artist who can bring thought and emotion to us through their work
Pets
I don't personally have time to put into the commitment that is required but love and respect all creatures of the earth
Philosophy
The Fourth Way
Photography
Used to study it, enjoy my Sony camera. Take pictures and video using iPhone more these days
Politics
I have my opinion, tell you later
Psychology
Do we really know enough about ourselves to determine what motivates and drives us?
Radio
WPFW is the greatest. Enjoy public, popular, easy listening and classical radio
Reading
Nice and enjoyable pastime. I usually try to read a book in one day
Religion
Whose right, whose wrong, think about it...
Rugs
An oriental or unusually designed rug over a beautiful wood floor... Nice
Running
Not in that big of a hurry, I'll do a marathon but prefer walking (walkathons)
School
We need to invest in the children's future, whose teaching them?
Shopping
As needed, love to browse... antique shops, specialty stores
Singing
Love it, so wish I had the talent to sing well
Sky Diving
Now that would be the ultimate experience
Snowboarding
Sounds like fun
Soccer
Like to watch sports on occasion, not a priority though
Stock Market
Goes up and down
Technology
I like to keep up with the latest, but not as important to me as time goes on
Television
Is it watching you?
Tennis
Can't keep up
Theater
Love it! Love it!
Traveling
Another great passion of mine! Love to be involved with the people of other cultures
Video Games
Wii please...
Walking
As a shared exercise, I enjoy taking walks with someone
Writing
Beginning to write my own story...
Personality
Adventurousness Somewhat Daring
Affectionateness Very Doting
Trustingness Average
Confidence Somewhat Confident
Independence Somewhat Independent
Mood Intense
Romance Very Romantic
Sociability Somewhat Introverted
Thought Process Somewhat Artistic
Tolerance Average
Lifestyle
Dress Average
Energy Average
Go Party Sometimes
Religion Small Part
Neatness Somewhat Neat
Punctuality Often Early
Spending Average
Work Ethic Average
Insights
Describe the perfect evening.
Sharing intelligent conversation on an interesting topic, funny thoughts, smiles and laughter... sharing a closeness of spirit and self... relaxing into one another's personal space and enjoying whatever the evening has in store whether it be watching the sunset, sharing a cocktail, walking on the beach, watching a movie, laughing at the monkeys in the zoo, going to a show, purusing a museum, walking up the steps of Coba or tobagganing down a hill in Portugal... its about the dance of romance inherent in sharing time and space with someone with whom you have mutual love and respect for.
Describe your perfect weekend.
Sleep in late and enjoy one another then make or go to a late breakfast; ride bikes, go to a museum, the park, the beach...
Do you believe in love at first sight?
Usually lust or "in love with love" it's called limerence. I believe in sparks of interest and desire at first sight, it's motivating... however it takes a while for the depth of lasting love to develop.
How many kids would you like to have?
Have enough. They are grown and have their own families.
How important is someone's physical appearance to you?
A healthy individual who exercises, takes care of their appearance, has a great smile and a zest for life turns me on.
If you could have one super power, what would it be and why?
Promote Peace and Love, End Poverty and provide Healthy Meals and Free Education for all of our Children
What is the purpose of marriage?
Primarily to inform the world on how to view your relationship and how to interact with you as a couple, it also can signify personal commitment.
What is the most important lesson that you've learned?
Self-respect precedes unconditional Love
What do your friends like about you most?
My authenticity and kindness
What do your friends tease you about the most?
My serious nature which resides along side of a tendancy to involve myself in situations that expose my vulnerabilities.
What gets on your nerves?
Selfishness and the inability to empathize with others, injustices against those who are disenfranchised
What is the most important thing in a relationship?
Honesty, authenticity and emotional availability for true intimacy; Commitment, consistency, balance, progression (relationships and people change) and shared values; Mutual love, care, trust and respect
What's the best age to get married?
Depends on maturity level, wisdom and readiness, not age
What turns you off?
Lack of communication, game-playing, inability to trust, unresolved baggage
What turns you on?
A great smile, a certain look, a tender touch, an interesting conversation, laughter, music, a sensual aroma, the sound of the ocean, total engagement in the present and simply put, Life!
What do you hope to be doing five years from now?
Content and fully engaged in enjoying my life and giving my absolute best in all that I choose to do!
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