..i won't describe what I'd like physically in a match because if we both like what we see then half the battle is won..far as personality is concerned I would hope that she be comfortable in her own mind as much as in her own skin..can laugh at the little things while remaining spontaneous and free..as for myself, I'm a lover in so many ways..father of four, whom I don't keep with me yet am endeared to faithfully..am a writer of poetry s music and can produce music also.if I was to describe myself in a few quick words I think they would be "silent beast".. I've not tried dating sitike this before, but maybe this will be fun..if anything more you'd like to know feel free to ask me..