Nothern comforter

I'm very friendly and thoughtful. I love to sing and listen to music, play bastketball and watch football and other sports and yes i'm a big sci-fi and japanime fan. Some say i'm somewhat stubborn and in retrospect i must (yet reluctently) agree, when i do get adament about something i tend to stick to my guns. The woman i'm looking for must be loving, thoughtful, caring, strong enough to put me my place but yet have subtlety to not make me look like a fool. I'm a very "touchy feely" kind of a guy, back, neck and head rubes turn me on like a light switch, i also like to feel skin on skin the warmth of the body is a very soothnig thing. The bottom line is i need someone to compliment and enhance my personality and i must do the same for them. Looking For: What i'm looking for..... a modern day woman but yet who knows old ways and can appreciate them, a woman with the strenght to put me in my place yet the sensibility not to make look like a fool, a woman who can talk me out of my mood when my nerves are at they're last strand yet knows when only a nood is needed to show she understands, a woman who's hands are gritty enough to suport and lift me yet supple to caress and release the tension in me.