Have had some hard knocks in life but have risen above them and feel stronger mentally. Try not to take life too seriously and am turned on by a sharp mind with a great sense of humour. I am sometimes superficial and my greatest fault is to be overly generous and wanting to take control. I love to exercise but I am not a fanatic just like to feel good about myself as I do it to please myself. I really like to bake but not to cook even though I am not too bad at it when I am interested. Baking for me the more challenging the better even when I fail..keep on trying. Nothing better for me than a good book (especially fantasy) and music playing in the back. My taste in music is eclectic from classical to reggae and all genres in between. I have two boys 29 and 18 and three siblings, two sisters and a brother who live in England. I grew up in England but was born here and returned home when I was twenty-three as I never felt comfortable there. I am happy for the experience as it has thought me to have a different outlook on like than the average Jamaican. I love Jamaica but not the people on a whole but my heart is here so I can live with that. Ideally I would like someone who is fun loving, ambitious,straight forward, reasonably intelligent with a great sense of humour, considerate and loves to dance as well as quiet times. I am somewhat snobbish and very particular when it comes to personal hygiene. Have no problem dating males younger than me but not too much older.