I am somewhat of a self-motivated and reclusive person. I define quality time as spending togetherness at home, a movie, a dinner, the park, the beach, etc. I've matured from the "crowd scene" and can do without it. In short, treat me like your queen and in return I'll treat you like my king. I am easy-going -- really I am (smile). Looking For: I try to be a unique woman, so it's tactless to vocalize a comparison of my flaws (and we all have some flaws) to other women. I try to surround myself with compassion, sincerity, understanding and caring. Although I portray a strong persona, at times I can be sensitive so it's good for my morale if my mate is wary of such and is meticulous about not trampling over my feelings. I don't like negative vibes/attitudes and surely don't like subjective criticism being pushed on me. However, I enjoy open communication and constructive criticism as efforts to build an enduring, non-penetrating foundation -- like the Bill and Hillary Clinton image. Occasionally, I do need to be "sat-on" and my mate must possess the strength and courage to do so when necessary.