Only one thing is missing...

I can't tell if my continued effort to utilize an internet dating site means I am an eternal optimist or a glutton for punishment. At least I don't have to pay for a babysitter. I am a 35-year old Ivy League grad, working in an accounting firm. Love my job, love my kids, can't seem to find the ONE missing piece of my puzzle....hope springs eternal, lol. Please only respond only if you are a secure, smart man for whom children's laughter (and occasional screams) are music to your ears. Extra points if you are adorable...guess that's it. Hope this sounds ok. Looking For: Intelligent, independent, secure, able to laugh at himself, kind, sweet, strong, gentle, spiritual, loves children, handsome...and I could go on and on. I suspect I will know him when I meet him.