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Divorced
Philadelphia, Pennsylvania
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African- American man looking for a smart, forward-looking friend/partner.

I'm a 53 year-old/young man willing to give all I have to offer (presently and in the future) to make my next/newest relationship my best (and last) ever. Thank you. I live and work in Philadelphia. Although I do have a decent sized family in Philadelphia (parents, siblings, nieces, nephews, etc.), I do not have kids of my own. Outside of work, I enjoy reading (history, social science, etc.), listening to music (Bob Marley, Lionel Ritchie, Steve Winwood, Gloria Estefan, Angelique Kidjo, Sade, etc.), Center City: Liberty Place (for a bacon cheeseburger and a coffee), then South Street (for more coffee, probably at "STARBUCKS", because my favorite cafe' disappeared 15 years ago, but I can't seem to get over it (hee hee, lol). Finally, sunny "LOVE PARK" (for the best view down the [Benjamin Franklin] Parkway). I look forward to communicating with an American woman, or a foreign national who lives in the United States. If you are interested in a positive interpersonal relationship that is based on mutual respect, honesty and "true love", and (hopefully) yours' and my best partnership and love-story to date, I'd love to talk to you. Please be located in the United States..."

Appearance
Hair
Brown
Eyes
Brown
Physique
Slender
Height
6'  1"   (185 cm)
Family Roots
American
Race
Black / African descent
My Lifestyle
Smoking
Non-Smoker
Drinking
Socially
Has Kids
No
Wants Kids
I'll tell you later
Religion
Spiritual
Education
Bachelor's Degree
Occupation
Manufacturing / Warehousing / Shipping
Income
I'll tell you later
Exercise
Regularly
Politics
I'll tell you later
What languages do you speak?
English
Favorite Music
R&B / Soul, Reggae
Favorites
Favorite Actors
Sidney Poitier, Micheal Douglas, Robert De Niro, Cary Grant
Favorite Actresses
Juliette Binoche, Lupita Nyong'o.
Favorite Artists
Bob Marley, Steve Winwood, Lionel Ritchie, Gloria Estefan, Angelique Kidjo, Sade, etc.
Favorite Athletes
Usain Bolt, Allyson Felix.
Favorite Authors
Ashley Montagu, Oliver C. Cox, Basil Davidson (three of many).
Favorite Hangouts
Liberty Place, South Street, and used bookstores (all in Philadelphia). Also, Hope Gardens in Kingston, Jamaica. Not a hangout, but I was there once; looking forward to when I'm able to go back).
Favorite Books
"Africa in History: Themes and Outlines", "Man's Most Dangerous Myth; The fallacy of Race", and "Caste, Caste, and Race: A Study in Social, Dynamics (just three of many).
Favorite Cities
Philadelphia, PA (USA), New York, NY (USA), and Kingston (Jamaica).
Favorite Clothing Stores
Oak Tree (not around anymore).
Favorite Colors
Blue (as in sky), and yellow (as in the sun).
Favorite Country
Cuba.
Favorite Drinks
Mountain Dew.
Favorite Fashion Designers
Roy Halston.
Favorite Fast Foods
Quarter Pounder w/cheese.
Favorite Magazines
Current History.
Favorite Horror Movies
Alien, Invasion of the Body Snatchers.
Favorite Action Movies
Jaws, Matrix.
Favorite News Anchor
Rachel Maddow
Favorite Night Clubs
Trocadero (Philadelphia).
Favorite Place To Be Kissed
I'm good with on the lips. (Keeping it clean (lol).
Favorite Politicians
Whoever defeats Trump this November.
Favorite Sports Teams
Eagles, Flyers, Phillies (Philadelphia).
Favorite Restaurants
Royals (Jamaican food restaurant in Philadelphia).
Favorite Songs At The Moment
Could You be Loved (by Marley), Kiss of Life (by Sade).
Favorite Sports
NFL Football, ATP/WTA Tennis.
Favorite TV Comedies
Threes' Company.
Favorite TV Dramas
Chicago Hope, Law and Order.
Favorite TV News Sources
MSNBC, CNN, NHK World, France 24
Favorite Foods
Jamaican.
Favorite Styles Of Music
Reggae and R&S/Soul.
Interests
Board Games
Chess and Monopoly.
Card Games
Poker.
Cars
I used to own a Volvo s40. Now I drive a Nissan Sentra.
Children
I don't have children.
Community Service
Yes.
Cooking
The more I cook, the better I get.
Dancing
No- injured knee.
Dating
Obviously a yes.
Dogs and Cats
Cats are easier.
Electronics
A modern-day necessity.
Exercise
Yes.
Food
Jamaican food is delicious.
Football
NFL? Yes.
Gambling
No.
Internet
Another modern-day necessity.
Movies
Anything with Sydney Poitier and Cary Grant.
Pets
Cats or fish only.
Philosophy
Dialectical Materialism (allow me to explain, if necessary).
Politics
I do follow American and world politics.
Psychology
Erich Fromm is cool.
Reading
Yes. I have several favorite books and authors.
Religion
I don't like religious labels, but I consider myself an Independent Christian.
Running
I have dreams about running (I need to explain that, too).
Sky Diving
I don't think so. I like living.
Soccer
I'm appreciating soccer (i.e. football) more and more.
Television
I enjoy watching national/world news programs and I.D. Channel (cable).
Tennis
Love to watch on television.
Traveling
Would love to be able to travel more in the future than I've been able to thus far.
Walking
Great to do with your lovely, trusted partner.
Writing
I like creating compositions, as opposed to a genre like fiction.
Personality
Adventurousness Somewhat Daring
Affectionateness Very Doting
Trustingness Very Skeptical
Confidence Very Confident
Independence Very Independent
Romance Very Romantic
Thought Process Very Analytical
Tolerance Somewhat Unbending
Insights
Describe the perfect evening.
Arriving home early from work, and eating a hot, delicious dinner of my favorite Jamaican dishes. Then helping my super-cute step-daughter with her homework. Sometimes I'll cheat and just do it for her. I'm a sucker for dimples (lol).
Describe your perfect weekend.
My perfect weekend: My wife (if we were still together), step-daughter and myself at the Philadelphia Zoo right at opening. Next- Liberty Place (in Phila.) for lunch.
Do you believe in love at first sight?
Yes. But I probably shouldn't.
How many kids would you like to have?
I would have liked to have had four, but my history of interpersonal relationships did not allow me to fulfill a family of four siblings.
How important is someone's physical appearance to you?
Honesty, realness, and the true intentions and motivations of a prospective soulmate is more critical.
If you could have one super power, what would it be and why?
Clairevoyance.
What is the purpose of marriage?
Marriage is the beginning the of the family, and should be a life-long commitment. It also provides an opportunity to grow in selflessness as a father serves his wife and children; and, vice versa.
What is the most important lesson that you've learned?
That, if you allow it, people will take acute advantage of you.
What gets on your nerves?
Fake people, and people who say one thing, but do the opposite.
What is the most important thing in a relationship?
Two items: Shared values, and honesty.
What's the best age to get married?
It depends on the lives o the particular people involved, and the particular national/world cultures that they are raised in.
What turns you off?
People who never miss church on Sunday, claim they're Christian- then, in my case- marry you just for a U.S. visa. I literally had that done to me.
What turns you on?
A highly attractive woman with a sharp sense of humor.
What do you hope to be doing five years from now?
Five years from now (which would be 2/17/2025), I'll settle for waking-up next to my new wife that I first talked to on this dating-site.
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